I do not believe in taking you from A to B. I am interested in assisting you in changing the alphabet and developing your own rules and grammar. And I do not think anybody has ever been inspired by mediocre goals that lack bold vision and heart. Our world is what we think it is, and exceptional things happen when and because we presuppose their existence, when and because we believe in, and exclusively filter for, the exceptional in ourselves and in each other. It is already there, at the...

It’s a powerful thing when a man chooses to be coached by a woman - especially when he is older. I am always moved by how in such a session centuries of hierarchies -long downloaded into our bodies- are palpable in the room. Here they are an extraordinary opportunity. A man choosing to be coached by a woman who is not a mother or lover -and not as a performance of allyship- is culturally rare. Every such fe/male encounter is not merely a meeting of individuals,  but a cultural system...

“What is happening?” I sometimes hear my clients exclaim. “I have no idea,” I say each time. What happens is some of my coaching sessions, at their core, is completely mysterious, even to me. When by sheer grace we touch magic, words fail - unless we let the poets speak, or you find your Rumi voice within. ~~~ To me, coaching is not a 'job'; it is a way of being — a way of living. One of the most profound and pure ways I know in which two people can share a moment in time and touch something...