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THE WORLD IN YOUR BLINDSPOT- Why You Donโ€™t See What Youโ€™re Not Looking For

Updated: Jul 30


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How often do YOU think about Vietnam & how often do you think it is mentioned in the news? Here's why this question matters to your life much more than you realise:


๐™”๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐™—๐™ง๐™–๐™ž๐™ฃ ๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™ก๐™ฎ ๐™š๐™ซ๐™š๐™ง ๐™จ๐™๐™ค๐™ฌ๐™จ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™ฌ๐™๐™–๐™ฉ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™–๐™ง๐™š ๐˜ผ๐™‡๐™๐™€๐˜ผ๐˜ฟ๐™” ๐™ฉ๐™๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™ ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ, ๐™—๐™š๐™ก๐™ž๐™š๐™ซ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ & ๐™›๐™ค๐™˜๐™ช๐™จ๐™จ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ค๐™ฃ.


If you have never put your attention on Vietnam, your brain won't show you anything to do with it.


(Before I spent time in Vietnam, I NEVER saw it being mentioned in the news. Now that I am here, I am astonished to see just how often it IS mentioned & see articles pop up about it everywhere.)

Before my brain had created a filter for Vietnam, it was hidden in ๐™– ๐™ข๐™–๐™จ๐™จ๐™ž๐™ซ๐™š ๐™—๐™ก๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™™๐™จ๐™ฅ๐™ค๐™ฉ - together with everything else that I have not yet put my attention on - i.e. most of the world out there!



๐˜ฝ๐™š๐™›๐™ค๐™ง๐™š ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐™—๐™ง๐™–๐™ž๐™ฃ ๐™๐™–๐™จ ๐™˜๐™ง๐™š๐™–๐™ฉ๐™š๐™™ ๐™– ๐™›๐™ž๐™ก๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ง, ๐™ž๐™ฉ ๐™ฌ๐™ž๐™ก๐™ก ๐™‰๐™Š๐™ ๐™จ๐™๐™ค๐™ฌ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™ฌ๐™๐™–๐™ฉ ๐™˜๐™–๐™ฃ ๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™ก๐™ฎ ๐™—๐™š๐™˜๐™ค๐™ข๐™š ๐™ซ๐™ž๐™จ๐™ž๐™—๐™ก๐™š -๐™–๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™ฅ๐™ค๐™จ๐™จ๐™ž๐™—๐™ก๐™š- ๐™ฉ๐™๐™ง๐™ค๐™ช๐™œ๐™ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™ž๐™จ ๐™›๐™ž๐™ก๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ง.

๐™๐™ฃ๐™™๐™š๐™ง๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™™๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™ž๐™จ ๐™ž๐™จ ๐™–๐™—๐™จ๐™ค๐™ก๐™ช๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ก๐™ฎ ๐™˜๐™ง๐™ช๐™˜๐™ž๐™–๐™ก ๐™›๐™ค๐™ง ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐™–๐™—๐™ž๐™ก๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™ฎ ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐™˜๐™ง๐™š๐™–๐™ฉ๐™š ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™ก๐™ž๐™›๐™š ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™ฌ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™ฉ.



The ability to take charge of your 'filters'/your brain is THE most important life skill in this 21st century.

Your brain's filters determine the options you see & the life you are able or UNable to create.

The most powerful filters are conditionings, negative memories & self-beliefs from your childhood. If you have been bullied at school, your brain might have made that mean "I AM STUPID".

Your self-beliefs are THE most life-shaping aspect of your psyche & they are a core focus of my coaching.

Remember:

๐™”๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐™—๐™ง๐™–๐™ž๐™ฃ ๐™จ๐™๐™ค๐™ฌ๐™จ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™ฌ๐™๐™–๐™ฉ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™–๐™ง๐™š ๐˜ผ๐™‡๐™๐™€๐˜ผ๐˜ฟ๐™” ๐™ฉ๐™๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™ ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™—๐™š๐™ก๐™ž๐™š๐™ซ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ!


Once we update "I am not enough/not loveable/powerless" etc to "I am already enough/ loveable/powerful etc WITHIN myself",


๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ฃ, ๐™ฌ๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™๐™๐™ƒ๐™Š๐™Ž๐™€ ๐™ฃ๐™š๐™ฌ ๐™›๐™ž๐™ก๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ง๐™จ, ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™–๐™ข๐™ฎ๐™œ๐™™๐™–๐™ก๐™–/๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™›๐™š๐™–๐™ง ๐™˜๐™š๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ง ๐™ž๐™ฃ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐™—๐™ง๐™–๐™ž๐™ฃ ๐™˜๐™–๐™ก๐™ข๐™จ ๐™™๐™ค๐™ฌ๐™ฃ/๐™—๐™š๐™˜๐™ค๐™ข๐™š๐™จ ๐™›๐™–๐™ง ๐™ก๐™š๐™จ๐™จ ๐™ง๐™š๐™–๐™˜๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ซ๐™š & ๐™—๐™š๐™˜๐™–๐™ช๐™จ๐™š ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™–๐™ง๐™š ๐™ฃ๐™ค๐™ฌ ๐˜ผ๐™‡๐™๐™€๐˜ผ๐˜ฟ๐™” ๐™จ๐™–๐™›๐™š, ๐™ฅ๐™ค๐™ฌ๐™š๐™ง๐™›๐™ช๐™ก, ๐™ก๐™ค๐™ซ๐™–๐™—๐™ก๐™š, ๐™จ๐™–๐™›๐™š, ๐™š๐™ฉ๐™˜. ๐™’๐™„๐™๐™ƒ๐™„๐™‰ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง๐™จ๐™š๐™ก๐™›, ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐™—๐™ง๐™–๐™ž๐™ฃ'๐™จ ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™—๐™ช๐™ž๐™ก๐™ฉ ๐™ฃ๐™š๐™œ๐™–๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ซ๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™ฎ ๐™—๐™ž๐™–๐™จ ๐™จ๐™๐™ž๐™›๐™ฉ๐™จ.


๐™‰๐™ค๐™ฌ ๐™ž๐™ฉ ๐™จ๐™๐™ค๐™ฌ๐™จ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™ฃ๐™š๐™ฌ ๐™ฅ๐™ค๐™จ๐™จ๐™ž๐™—๐™ž๐™ก๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™š๐™จ, ๐™ค๐™ฅ๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™จ, ๐™ค๐™ฅ๐™ฅ๐™ค๐™ง๐™ฉ๐™ช๐™ฃ๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™š๐™จ, ...

"It's as if a layer of wool has been removed from my eyes!" a client recently exclaimed.


So...what problem do you keep waking up to each morning?

What goal have you been longing to reach for years and yet you STILL have not moved towards it at all?

Or tried twice, failed & then, out of sheer shame, stopped trying?


Know that the key to all of these things lies in your brain.

I'm here to turn it for you! ย :-))


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